How rape trials should go?
- Lawyer: Did he rape her?
- Witness: Yes, but she was drunk and passed out.
- Lawyer: That's not what I asked. Did he rape her?
- Witness: Yes, but she was wearin-
- Lawyer: I didn't ask what she was wearing. Did he rape her?
- Witness: Yes, but-
- Lawyer: I didn't ask anything else. It's just a simple yes or no answer. Did he rape her?
- Witness: Yes.
- Laywer: Yes, he raped her.
- Rape is rape is rape, no matter the context.
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To Those Nights - Wong Fu Productions
I think it’s important to make clear first and foremost, “To Those Nights” is not a short about whether drinking is right or wrong, or cool or bad for you. It’s strictly about the emotions and situations that might arise when you allow yourself to get to these inebriated states. There is no underage drinking, and there is absolutely no drinking and driving. I really hope people don’t get caught up on the alcohol side of this story, but instead focus on the characters and what they are each going through.
It’s probably safe to say that this is one of the most honest shorts I’ve done. Not only am I indirectly admitting that I’ve been drunk enough to have these thoughts, I’m also bringing you into those thoughts, the ones that you, when you are drunk, keep to yourself, or within your car, or within your texts. But I don’t mind, because I don’t think it’s really a secret. I think everyone at some point in their drinking life has or will go through these emotions regarding an lost love, an ex, or someone they’re head over heels with. So while being very exposing, it’s also very intimate. I’m not saying that I went through each of these 3 stories literally (I’ve never cheated), but the ingredients are things we are all familiar with.
WHY THESE 3 STORIES?
Each story was created very specifically. There are many drunk dialing stories out there (some crazier than others I’m sure) and originally I was going to give this project the title “The Drunk Call Chronicles” or something like that. Decided I didn’t want to make the focus on the drunk calls, though, so that was tossed out. These stories were chosen because I wanted to represent several emotional states, but with equal significance. Even the genders of the protagonists were important. For example, I don’t think a lot of guys want to admit that they get sad and think about their past mistakes when they’re drunk, so I wanted to represent this in Justin Chon’s character, Elijah. Likewise girls are typically assumed to be the ones that get taken advantage of when drunk, so Karalynn’s character, Jessica, was placed in a situation where she was in control and she makes the first move. In terms of story lines, I wanted to balance out the short with these 3 stories. Bryan and Courtney’s drunken proposal story was important to lighten the mood. If there were 3 sad/depressing stories, that would’ve just been too much, plus I think it’s important to show that drinking can (and should) bring joy and light hearted stories. It doesn’t always have to be dark and moody. Hopefully the viewer felt this balance or dark and light.ONE WEEK FOR MUSIC
Jesse Chui has long been providing amazing music for some of our favorite projects. He helped us all the way back in college, and over the last few years with music in “At Musing’s End”, “When Five Fell, and “The Places We Should Have Gone”. It’s been awhile since we’ve been able to link up with him, but this was a perfect time. He worked extremely hard to create all the music and go back and forth with me to fine tune things, in just a little over a week of time. Despite this time constraint, he did an amazing job capturing the ethereal feelings, tension, and hope through the project. Certain scenes, however, were purposely left without music, not because we didn’t have time, but because we wanted to leave them “raw” in a sense. Adding music always draws some attention to the fact that you are watching a produced video, and it typically leads the viewer to feel a predetermined emotion for a scene. But something like, the final hallway between Jessica and Eddie, we wanted to keep untouched, so the viewer could allow themselves to interpret their feelings completely on their own and feel like they were sitting right there with them.LOW KEY PRODUCTION, WHAT’S NEW?
Unfortunately, just like with The Last, there isn’t really any BTS to share the process of this production. Even though we had about 7 shoot days, they were all usually very quickly organized or squeezed in between some other work, plus with these “personal” projects I always tend to keep the shoots and crews very small, so capturing BTS was always a last minute thought that we didn’t really have the personnel for. We have some photos this time at least! hahaHOW’D YOU GET THIS AMAZING CAST!
We were very fortunate to have some incredible people play the roles of these characters. The first person we confirmed was Justin Chon. While he’s known for his crazy antics on his youtube channel and 21 and over, I saw a short film he did a couple years ago called Jin that was very dramatic so I wanted to give him another opportunity to show this side of him. Justin knew Janel Parrish (Mona on Pretty Little Liars) and he talked to her to play opposite him in that scene. She was very sweet and fun to work with. Honestly I was quite nervous working with her since we hadn’t known each other before and she’s probably used to bigger productions, but she was totally down for everything. Thanks Justin for making that happen. After that we locked in Graham who we met a year ago on the project “The Wan Percent”. I had always remembered him and the fact that he’s a Jersey Boy (the musical) in Las Vegas. I was definitely excited to work with such a professional theater actor. Justin James Hughes was next and he, like Justin Chon, is more known for his comedy on youtube, but I wanted to explore another side of him. When I first asked him if he’s ever done anything dramatic he said the most dramatic role he could refer me to was a music video he did for Nickleback. DONE. We thought of Meghan because we knew Jimmy Wong from working with him, and I wanted to bring in more “youtube” friends. Karalynn was someone Chris met briefly in an acting course. She stood out to him, and he was absolutely right. This whole cast was such a blessing to work with, and I’m really glad the project could be Janel’s dip from TV into youtube, Meghan’s first time acting, Justin Chon and Hughes going outside of their character.WHY THE SWEARING??
Wong Fu has never had uncensored swear words in our content. We never felt the absolute need for it, or a bleep would always suffice. However, with a short like this one, I wanted it to be authentic. And what usually happens when people drink? Their tongues get a little looser and yes, they cuss. I thought about using other words in place, but it just seemed too unnatural. It didn’t seem that necessary to censor considering the subject matter was already somewhat mature, and it was more important to me to be truthful to these environments. And in regards to Jessica and Eddie’s story involving cheating, to be honest, I’ve wanted to shoot that final hallway scene for many years, but I just never had the proper story to fit it in. While I personally have never done anything like that, cheating is something that many people unfortunately give in to, and it’s a scenario I’ve always wanted to try in a short. By no means am I endorsing it, and hopefully with the closing monologue emphasize that.ABOVE ALL, ENCOURAGEMENT
That closing monologue is really the ultimate message I hope people will take from this short. Sure the video had some drama, sure it had some drinking, but the realization that the Bryan expresses at the end (while drunk, sure) is really important. I’m nearing the end of my 20s and have been through and around enough scenarios to see many people including myself, lost and wondering about their lives, love, or lack of fulfillment in these areas. As someone, just like you, who’s felt extremely low and lonely, I understand those feelings, the fear and discomfort. But amazingly enough, with time I’ve made my way out of that period and can look back, finally understanding why all of it had to happen. I hope the viewers can see this as my encouragement to them. That while there will be difficult times ahead, or there are difficult times now, it won’t last forever. You’ll learn from it, and grow, and eventually… “we’ll all get there, happy”.-Philip Wang
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When I was a kid, shows took breaks on the summer and that’s it. They didn’t keep you waiting for weeks or months!
This is Once Upon A Time described by Ellen.
IT ALL STARTED FROM
AND NOW
I HAVE HAD IT WITH THIS WEBSITE
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A Daddy’s Letter to His Little Girl (About Her Future Husband)
Dear Cutie-Pie,
Recently, your mother and I were searching for an answer on Google. Halfway through entering the question, Google returned a list of the most popular searches in the world. Perched at the top of the list was “How to keep him interested.”
It startled me. I scanned several of the countless articles about how to be sexy and sexual, when to bring him a beer versus a sandwich, and the ways to make him feel smart and superior.
And I got angry.
Little One, it is not, has never been, and never will be your job to “keep him interested.”
Little One, your only task is to know deeply in your soul—in that unshakeable place that isn’t rattled by rejection and loss and ego—that you are worthy of interest. (If you can remember that everyone else is worthy of interest also, the battle of your life will be mostly won. But that is a letter for another day.)
If you can trust your worth in this way, you will be attractive in the most important sense of the word: you will attract a boy who is both capable of interest and who wants to spend his one life investing all of his interest in you.
Little One, I want to tell you about the boy who doesn’t need to be kept interested, because he knows you are interesting:
I don’t care if he puts his elbows on the dinner table—as long as he puts his eyes on the way your nose scrunches when you smile. And then can’t stop looking.
I don’t care if he can’t play a bit of golf with me—as long as he can play with the children you give him and revel in all the glorious and frustrating ways they are just like you.
I don’t care if he doesn’t follow his wallet—as long as he follows his heart and it always leads him back to you.
I don’t care if he is strong—as long as he gives you the space to exercise the strength that is in your heart.
I couldn’t care less how he votes—as long as he wakes up every morning and daily elects you to a place of honor in your home and a place of reverence in his heart.
I don’t care about the color of his skin—as long as he paints the canvas of your lives with brushstrokes of patience, and sacrifice, and vulnerability, and tenderness.
I don’t care if he was raised in this religion or that religion or no religion—as long as he was raised to value the sacred and to know every moment of life, and every moment of life with you, is deeply sacred.
In the end, Little One, if you stumble across a man like that and he and I have nothing else in common, we will have the most important thing in common:
You.
Because in the end, Little One, the only thing you should have to do to “keep him interested” is to be you.
Your eternally interested guy,
Daddy
Holy shit. That. Is a father.
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sad-teeth:
So today Angelina Jolie had double mastectomy, which is the removal of one’s breasts, to prevent Breast cancer. So instead of praising Angelina on her bravery, men on Twitter decided to ridicule her, even calling her stupid for removing her breasts. For those of you on Tumblr that are attacking Feminists about being delusional about sexism against women and misogyny here’s your fucking proof that sexism and misogyny exists.
Just goes to show what’s valued about women. Not her life, her body. I kinda don’t even want to get into a rant. It’s just going to make me mad.
Edit: oh, and I didn’t even see the one about doing it for attention. Yes, a woman would go through something so mentally difficult as a masectomy for attention. Not because he mother died from breast cancer and she has an 87% risk herself. It’s because she hasn’t been in the news lately.
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I was yelling at him to look at the camera.
Lol. ♥kill me
The look on his face. Just look at it. Damn, he’s in love with her.
PRECIOUS
My girl will like this
I have rebloged this every time I see it
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why is this my first time seeing this it’s adorable omg
I will never not reblog this. It is just too perfect.
best gif I have ever seen omfg so cute
This is sooooo precious :)
Split this crowd right down the middle, I want one half on this side, one half on that side.
We’re not going to make you run into each other we’re not that kind of fucking band, we’re not heavy.
Face someone, look someone in the eye. Pick someone, pick anyone. Walk over to them and give them a big hug.
It’s called the wall of hugs everybody.
- Kellin Quinn
if I have a band that gets this big im going to have a wall of kisses where you split it down the middle and kiss someone you’ve never met before
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I will never not reblog this.
Basically.
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Oun Sambath and his pet python.
A few months after Oun Sambath was born, his family found a baby python under his mattress. They carefully took it outside, but during the night it returned to be with the baby boy. The boy’s father prayed, and decided that the snake belonged to the boy and would bring them happiness.
The boy and the snake have been together ever since. They have played together, have slept together, and even have talked together.
“What do you say to the snake?” People have asked the boy.
“That is a secret,” the boy has replied.This post has been featured on a 1000notes.com blog.














